Alwenna Blog

Notes from building a kinder, sharper astrologer.

Should You Get Back With Your Ex? What the Charts Actually Show

A second chance can be real growth — or the same loop on repeat. Here's what synastry, the composite, and the nodes say about whether a reunion is worth it.

Neptune in Synastry: The Dream, the Soulmate Spell, and the Fog

Neptune makes love feel fated and magical — and can quietly blur the truth. How to tell a real spiritual bond from rose-coloured glasses, in plain language.

Lilith in Synastry: The Magnetic, Taboo, Hard-to-Quit Attraction

Some connections are wild, obsessive, and a little forbidden — impossible to ignore and hard to leave. That's Black Moon Lilith. What it is, and how to handle it.

Juno: The Marriage Asteroid — the Partner You Actually Commit To

Venus is who you're attracted to. Juno is who you marry. Meet the asteroid of commitment — what you truly need a partner to be for the long haul.

Gana Koota: Are You Gentle, Grounded, or Intense? The Temperament Match

One Vedic compatibility factor sorts everyone into three temperaments — divine, human, and fierce — and checks whether two natures clash or click. Meet Gana Koota.

Chiron in Synastry: The Wound and the One Who Heals It

Some people press on an old hurt you've spent years hiding — and somehow help you heal it. That's Chiron. A gentle guide to the wounded-healer bond in love.

Your Mars Sign — How You Desire and How You Fight

Venus is how you love. Mars is how you want — and how you argue. Your Mars sign quietly runs your desire and your conflict style, and mismatched Mars is behind a lot of "we fight about nothing."

When Will Love Arrive? Vedic Dasha Timing for Relationships

Western astrology asks who fits. Vedic astrology adds a remarkable second question — when. Through the dasha system, it maps the chapters of your life, including the seasons most likely to bring love.

House Overlays — Where Their Planets Land in Your Life

Synastry isn't only about which planets touch. It's also about where their planets fall in your chart — the area of life they quietly light up (or stir up). Here's how house overlays work.

Soulmates and Twin Flames — What Astrology Actually Says

"Are we soulmates?" is the question everyone secretly wants answered. Here's an honest look at what astrology can — and can't — say about soulmates and twin flames, without the mysticism or the hype.