Alwenna Blog

Notes from building a kinder, sharper astrologer.

"Why Am I Always the One Who Loves More?"

If you always seem to care more, text first, and wait by the phone, it's not a character flaw — and it's not random. Here's what your chart says about the love imbalance, and how to stop blaming yourself for it.

"Where Jealousy Really Comes From in Your Chart"

Jealousy gets a bad reputation, but it's a normal feeling with a real source. Your chart shows where yours comes from — security, control, or fear of loss — and how it shows up between two people. No shame, just understanding.

"When Will I Get Married? What Vedic Astrology Actually Looks At"

"\"When will I marry?\" is one of the oldest questions asked of an astrologer — and Vedic astrology has a real, structured way of approaching it. Here's what it actually examines, honestly, without false promises of a date."

"What Are We Actually Fighting About? Your Conflict Style in the Chart"

Most couples don't fight about the dishes — they fight about how they fight. Your chart shows your conflict style: how you argue, what sets you off, and why two people clash the way they do. Here's how to read it.

"Venus Through the Houses: Where You Look for Love"

Your Venus sign says how you love. Your Venus house says where — which arena of life you go looking for it in. It's the difference between two people who love the same way but seek it in opposite places.

"The Astrology of Rebounds (and Why the Timing Makes Sense)"

A rebound gets a bad name, but it's rarely random — there's usually a reason it shows up right when it does. Here's what astrology says about the relationship that arrives just after the last one ended.

"Sun, Moon & Rising: The Three Signs That Matter More Than Your Sun Sign"

"I'm a Leo" only tells a twelfth of the story. The real starting point in astrology is a trio — your Sun, Moon, and Rising. Here's what each one is, in plain language, and why the three together change everything in love.

"Should We Move In Together? What Two Charts Say About Sharing a Life"

Moving in is where romance meets reality — the dishes, the routines, the daily rhythm. Astrology has a lot to say about whether you'll thrive under one roof, and whether now is the right time. Here's how to read it.

"Saturn in the 7th House: Fear of Commitment, or Built to Last?"

Saturn in the house of partnership has a heavy reputation — late marriage, fear, caution. But it's also one of the most committed placements there is. Here's the honest, two-sided truth about Saturn in the 7th.

"\"Right Person, Wrong Time\" — When Timing Beats Compatibility"

Sometimes two people fit beautifully and it still doesn't work — because the timing was wrong. Astrology takes timing seriously, in a way most relationship advice doesn't. Here's why when can matter as much as who.