Alwenna Blog
Notes from building a kinder, sharper astrologer.
"Pluto Generations in Love: Dating Across (and Within) Your Cohort"
The slow outer planets stay in one sign for years, so everyone born around you shares them — a whole generation's signature. When you date across an age gap, those signatures meet. Here's what that really means.
"Lust or Love? What Your Chart Says About the Difference"
In the early rush it's almost impossible to tell desire from love — they feel identical. But they come from different planets, and your chart can tell them apart. Here's how to read infatuation versus the real thing.
"Karmic Relationships: When Love Feels Like Unfinished Business"
Some relationships feel instantly familiar, magnetic, and impossible to walk away from — even when they hurt. People call these 'karmic.' Here's what that actually means in a chart, minus the mysticism.
"Is the Spark Supposed to Fade? The Honeymoon Phase and What Lasts"
Every relationship starts with a high — and then it changes. Is that a problem or just the next chapter? Here's what the honeymoon phase actually is, and which placements tell you whether your love is a slow burn or a fast one.
"Is It Them, or Is It Me? Your Own Patterns vs the Relationship"
When a relationship struggles, the hardest question is honest: is this about us, or is this my pattern showing up again? Astrology can actually separate the two — your natal chart from the synastry. Here's how.
"How to Love Your Partner Better, Using Their Chart"
Astrology isn't only for checking if you match — it's a practical cheat sheet for loving someone well. A few placements in your partner's chart tell you exactly what makes them feel safe, seen, and wanted. Here's how to use them.
"Great Chemistry, But It Never Works: Passion vs Compatibility"
You've felt it — the connection that's electric and impossible at the same time. The truth astrology makes clear is that chemistry and compatibility are two different things, made by different placements. Here's the difference.
"Friends or Lovers? What Two Charts Say About the Line Between Them"
Some people are an amazing friend and a confusing romance — or the other way around. Astrology actually splits these into two different kinds of connection. Here's how to tell which one you've really got.
"Empty 7th House — Does It Mean You'll Never Marry?"
You looked at your chart, saw no planets in the house of marriage, and panicked. Breathe. An empty 7th house is one of the most misunderstood things in astrology. Here's what it really means.
"Eclipses and Your Relationships"
Twice a year, eclipse season speeds everything up — relationships begin, end, or change overnight. Eclipses aren't a curse, but they are an accelerator. Here's what they really do to love, minus the doom.